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The High-Value Masculine – Thriving Relationships with Jessica Hartley – August 15, 2019

Host: Jessica Hartley

Topic: The High-Value Masculine

Guest: Oren Harris

Santa Clarita Relationship coach Jessica Hartley welcomed local mentor and coach, Oren Harris, to her on-air radio show this week to talk about the “High-Value Masculine.”

Oren and Jessica start the show by talking about how most couples want to thrive but don’t even realize that they are operating in a survive way. They both agree that this is what a relationship might look like when the people are not living consciously.

Oren Harris is a Transformational coach, spiritual teacher, and a pioneer on the leading edge of human consciousness and sat down with Jessica to talk as a team about how to better relationships by owning who you are and what you have to offer.

“What does it take to really own the value that you are as that masculine and what are you creating when you do,” asks Jessica.

Previous Episode: How Do You Know When It Is Time To Leave A Marriage? – Thriving Relationships With Jessica Hartley – July 18, 2019

Jessica and Oren go on to define what it looks like to own and lean into your masculinity. Jessica describes it from a woman’s perspective and how most women would want their partner to be. Oren goes on to say that a man needs to begin by deeply respecting himself.

To hear the full show, watch the attached video or visit her website here.

Jessica Hartley is a leader, revolutionizing how we heal our marriages and turn them around for good. The Legendary Love Program provides the structure necessary to integrate powerful changes into your relationship, with or without the direct participation of both partners.

No more years of talk therapy, Jessica Hartley and her team are Deep Healing Experts.

Each mentoring session is tailored to address what is relevant and important to YOU so you can receive powerful feedback and practical guidance, and make substantial leaps forward.

Because our program is in high demand, we don’t want to be your crutch. Our program will give you everything you need to be successful as you move forward together. It will lift you up and set you free. We’re here to create LASTING CHANGE, we hope you are too.

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How Do You Know When It Is Time To Leave A Marriage? – Thriving Relationships With Jessica Hartley – July 18, 2019

Host: Jessica Hartley

Topic: How do you know when it is time to leave a marriage?

Santa Clarita Relationship coach Jessica Hartley was live on-air this week on her weekly radio show to talk about how to know when it is time to leave a marriage.

Jessica starts the show by saying that relationships can be hard, and they take work, and that nine times out of ten, the grass is not greener on the other side. What if you are that one out of nine who should leave though?, asks Jessica, saying that she is here to help guide you through those decisions.

When things get hard in a relationship, one of the pitfalls that people fall into is blaming their partner, says Jessica. It’s important to take responsibility for your role in whatever is going on. Jessica also adds that it is so important to remember that each person in the relationship just wants to be loved.

Previous Episode: What If You Loved Your Spouse Like You Love Your Child? – Thriving Relationships With Jessica Hartley – June 27, 2019

“Reach out to your partner, and hold them,” says Jessica, “and be held, and just be loved.”

Jessica goes on to share many more ways to help revive a relationship and make it thrive.

To hear the full show, watch the attached video or visit her website here.

Jessica Hartley is a leader, revolutionizing how we heal our marriages and turn them around for good. The Legendary Love Program provides the structure necessary to integrate powerful changes into your relationship, with or without the direct participation of both partners.

No more years of talk therapy, Jessica Hartley and her team are Deep Healing Experts.

Each mentoring session is tailored to address what is relevant and important to YOU so you can receive powerful feedback and practical guidance, and make substantial leaps forward.

Because our program is in high demand, we don’t want to be your crutch. Our program will give you everything you need to be successful as you move forward together. It will lift you up and set you free. We’re here to create LASTING CHANGE, we hope you are too.

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What If You Loved Your Spouse Like You Love Your Child? – Thriving Relationships With Jessica Hartley – June 27, 2019

Santa Clarita Relationship coach Jessica Hartley was live on-air this week on her weekly radio show to talk about how the relationship we have with our partners may be flawed, and how to learn from the way we love our children to improve our capacity to unconditionally love.

Jessica says that as parents, we have a very different relationship with our children than we do with anyone else. That relationship is unconditional and forever. She encourages everyone to use some of those kinds of love towards our significant others as well.

“If we could just realize that our relationships thrive when we see the very best in our partner, despite their weaknesses,” said Jessica. “If we did that, we would approach them with unconditional love.”

Jessica goes into detail about how different people react differently in relationships, many times, because of how they were parented. She also explains that different parenting techniques and depending on how conscious the parent is going about things, that people grow up searching for specific kind of relationships, good or bad.

To hear the full show, watch the attached video or visit her website here.

Previous Episode: Realistic Wedding Vows – Thriving Relationships With Jessica Hartley – May 30, 2019

Jessica Hartley is a leader, revolutionizing how we heal our marriages and turn them around for good. The Legendary Love Program provides the structure necessary to integrate powerful changes into your relationship, with or without the direct participation of both partners.

No more years of talk therapy, Jessica Hartley and her team are Deep Healing Experts.

Each mentoring session is tailored to address what is relevant and important to YOU so you can receive powerful feedback and practical guidance, and make substantial leaps forward.

Because our program is in high demand, we don’t want to be your crutch. Our program will give you everything you need to be successful as you move forward together. It will lift you up and set you free. We’re here to create LASTING CHANGE, we hope you are too.

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Realistic Wedding Vows – Thriving Relationships With Jessica Hartley – May 30, 2019

Host: Jessica Hartley

Guest: Amanda Gish

Topic: Realistic Wedding Vows

Santa Clarita Relationship coach Jessica Hartley was live on-air this week on her weekly radio show to talk about wedding vows, and how to make them more consciously.

With wedding season right around the corner, Jessica welcomed guest Amanda Gish on her show to discuss how old wedding vows may not lead to the thriving relationship that couples want down the road.

Wedding vows can be an intention that you are setting in the beginning of your marriage for how you want it to be, said Amanda.

Previous Episode: Overcoming Relationship Addictions – Thriving Relationships With Jessica Hartley – May 23, 2019

“A lot of times our wedding vows right now are a little bit embedded in old, traditional, patterns of codependency,” said Jessica. “One vow that definitely use some updating is the one that suggests that I vow to make you happy.”

A relationship is one of the most sacred vessels for our own personal growth, said Jessica. A lot of that personal growth is stopping trying to make the world outside of you happy and stop being responsible for your partner’s happiness.

Jessica and Amanda both agree that each person in a relationship has to take responsibility for their own domain.

Jessica Hartley is a leader, revolutionizing how we heal our marriages and turn them around for good. The Legendary Love Program provides the structure necessary to integrate powerful changes into your relationship, with or without the direct participation of both partners.

No more years of talk therapy, Jessica Hartley and her team are Deep Healing Experts.

Each mentoring session is tailored to address what is relevant and important to YOU so you can receive powerful feedback and practical guidance, and make substantial leaps forward.

Because our program is in high demand, we don’t want to be your crutch. Our program will give you everything you need to be successful as you move forward together. It will lift you up and set you free. We’re here to create LASTING CHANGE, we hope you are too.

Learn to THRIVE in deep connection and strong lasting love TODAY!

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Overcoming Relationship Addictions – Thriving Relationships With Jessica Hartley – May 23, 2019

Host: Jessica Hartley

Guest: Reverend Ron Blair

Topic: Overcoming Relationship Addictions

Santa Clarita Relationship coach Jessica Hartley was live on-air this week on her weekly radio show to talk about addictions in relationships, how to overcome them, and the difference between enabling and empowering.

Jessica discusses how many of the couples she works with struggle with some form of addiction or another. Some struggles with drugs and alcohol, and others with porn, sex addictions, and anger.

One of the things Jessica says she finds with the significant others of the addicts, is they want to love their partner, but end up enabling them and their behavior.

Previous Episode: 6 essential Elements For Long Lasting Love – Thriving Relationships With Jessica Hartley – May 16, 2019

Jessica’s live on-air guest was Reverend Ron Blair from the Santa Clarita Center for Spiritual Living.

Reverend Blair opens up on the show about his 25 year struggle with drug and alcohol addiction, and shares how he views those addictions now being sober over 20 years.

“It was an act of escapism,” said Ron. “I was escaping from my belief system which did not bring me peace.”

Jessica and Ron talked about how not to make the addictions worse in these relationships and gave helpful tips on how to strengthen the relationship and weaken the hold of those addictions.

Jessica Hartley is a leader, revolutionizing how we heal our marriages and turn them around for good. The Legendary Love Program provides the structure necessary to integrate powerful changes into your relationship, with or without the direct participation of both partners.

No more years of talk therapy, Jessica Hartley and her team are Deep Healing Experts.

Each mentoring session is tailored to address what is relevant and important to YOU so you can receive powerful feedback and practical guidance, and make substantial leaps forward.

Because our program is in high demand, we don’t want to be your crutch. Our program will give you everything you need to be successful as you move forward together. It will lift you up and set you free. We’re here to create LASTING CHANGE, we hope you are too.

Learn to THRIVE in deep connection and strong lasting love TODAY!

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6 essential Elements For Long Lasting Love – Thriving Relationships With Jessica Hartley – May 16, 2019

Host: Jessica Hartley

Topic: 6 Essential Elements for Long Lasting Love

Santa Clarita Relationship coach Jessica Hartley was live on-air this week on her weekly radio show to talk about the six essential elements she says are required for long lasting love.

“If you don’t have these six elements, you will not thrive in long lasting love,” said Jessica. “Plain and simple.”

It’s important to self reflect and get humble in this process, says Jessica, sometimes people think they have areas of the relationship covered and assume they don’t need any work, when really they might.

The first and most important element is self honor. Many people go to couples therapy wanting to fix the other person, but that’s not going to lead to a thriving relationship, says Jessica.

“It takes you bringing the best version of you possible to the relationship,” says Jessica.

Previous Episode: Cultivating What We Want From This Life – Thriving Relationships With Jessica Hartley – May 09, 2019

The second element is to have the ability to heal our wounds, says Jessica.

“We all have wounds that we acquired from childhood experiences, or early relationship experiences,” says Jessica.

She isn’t suggesting you have to heal all of them by the time you enter into a committed relationship, but instead to just be aware that stuff will come up and that you keep a growth mindset.

Jessica Hartley is a leader, revolutionizing how we heal our marriages and turn them around for good. The Legendary Love Program provides the structure necessary to integrate powerful changes into your relationship, with or without the direct participation of both partners.

No more years of talk therapy, Jessica Hartley and her team are Deep Healing Experts.

Each mentoring session is tailored to address what is relevant and important to YOU so you can receive powerful feedback and practical guidance, and make substantial leaps forward.

Because our program is in high demand, we don’t want to be your crutch. Our program will give you everything you need to be successful as you move forward together. It will lift you up and set you free. We’re here to create LASTING CHANGE, we hope you are too.

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Cultivating What We Want From This Life – Thriving Relationships With Jessica Hartley – May 09, 2019

Host: Jessica Hartley

Guest: Angela Renee

Topic: Cultivating What We Want From This Life

Santa Clarita Relationship coach Jessica Hatley was live on-air this week on her weekly radio show to talk about how to cultivate what you want from this life.

Read More Cultivating What We Want From This Life – Thriving Relationships With Jessica Hartley – May 09, 2019

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The Divorce Rate and How To Avoid It – Thriving Relationships With Jessica Hartley – April 25, 2019

Host: Jessica Hartley

Topic: The Divorce Rate and How To Avoid It

Guest: Samantha Davis

Santa Clarita Relationship coach Jessica Hartley was live on-air this week on her weekly radio show to talk about how divorce rates are high, and the amount of people in unhappy relationships are even higher.

Jessica was joined in studio by Samantha Davis, who is a women’s wellness expert, and author. Samantha mentions that one of the best things she has learned about being in a relationship is that no matter what happens, she is responsible for her reaction. Read More The Divorce Rate and How To Avoid It – Thriving Relationships With Jessica Hartley – April 25, 2019

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Addictions And Being In Love – Thriving Relationships with Jessica Hartley – April 18, 2019

Host: Jessica Hartley

Topic: Addictions and Being In Love

Santa Clarita Relationship coach Jessica Hartley was live on-air this week on her weekly radio show to talk about addictions in relationships, and how to conquer them and codependent relationship habits.

Addictions like alcohol, drugs and porn can be detrimental to a relationship. There are other addictions that can damage a relationship that are emotional addictions, says Jessica, and an addiction to codependency is when we need our partners to be a certain way. Read More Addictions And Being In Love – Thriving Relationships with Jessica Hartley – April 18, 2019

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Overcoming Abandonment – Thriving Relationships with Jessica Hartley – April 11, 2019

Host: Jessica Hartley

Topic: Overcoming Abandonment

Guest: Karina Romeo

Santa Clarita Relationship coach Jessica Hartley was live on-air this week on her weekly radio show to talk about what it looks like in a relationship when someone is triggered by past abandonment, and how to overcome that.

Read More Overcoming Abandonment – Thriving Relationships with Jessica Hartley – April 11, 2019