The Co-dependent Relationship Habits

Thriving Relationships with Jessica Hartley

Host: Jessica Hartley

Topic: The Co-dependant Relationship Habits

Santa Clarita Relationship coach Jessica Hartley was live on-air this week on her weekly radio show to talk about addictions in relationships, and how to conquer them and codependent relationship habits.

Addictions like alcohol, drugs and porn can be detrimental to a relationship. There are other addictions that can damage a relationship that are emotional addictions, says Jessica, and an addiction to codependency is when we need our partners to be a certain way.

Previous Episode: Overcoming Abandonment – Thriving Relationships with Jessica Hartley – April 11, 2019

In a codependent relationship, the partners look to each other for validation, approval, and need the other person to make them happy or feel whole.

Jessica says in order to move out of these codependent relationships people need to accept where they are, and the path they are on. “People need to take responsibility for their own persona growth,” said Jessica.

“It’s an opportunity to step into a place where we can become self-fulfilled,” said Jessica, “where we no longer need or become desperate in our partner to do something or be something or say something a certain way.”

That desperation and expectation automatically implies that we are giving them the responsibility to make us happy, said Jessica.


Jessica Hartley is a leader, revolutionizing how we heal our marriages and turn them around for good.  Her Legendary Love Program provides the structure necessary to integrate powerful changes into your relationship, with or without the direct participation of both partners.

No more years of talk therapy, Jessica Hartley is a Deep Healing Expert, her sessions don’t stop at an hour- they are complete when the issue is addressed, resolved, and released.

As a powerful mentor, she tailors a 12-week program to address what is relevant and important to YOU, giving you powerful feedback, action steps, and practical guidance each week so you can make permanent leaps forward.

Jessica doesn’t want to be your crutch.  Her approach is to give you everything you need to be successful and get the results you need- without separation, divorce, or wasting years in talk therapy.  Her process will lift you up and set you free.  “I’m here to create lasting change and deliver a legendary love life… I hope you are too.”