Host: Jessica Hartley
Guest: Reverend Ron Blair
Santa Clarita Relationship coach Jessica Hartley was live on-air this week on her weekly radio show to talk about trust. She was joined in studio by Reverend Ron Blair from the Santa Clarita Spiritual Center, and the two talk about inner trust, relational trust and what trust looks like in a thriving relationship.
According to Jessica, distrust is just fear in disguise, and when we feel distrust it has more to do with our own past experiences than what is happening in the moment. She encourages everyone to reevaluate how we “do” trust in relationships.
“The way we’ve been doing trust, generally speaking, destroys our relationships,” said Jessica. “It creates codependency.”
Reverend Blair echoed her sentiments by adding, that relationships are meant to be shared, not as a source to be getting anything from.
The pair talk in depth about what trust looks like in a thriving relationship, and the difference between Inner trust and relational trust, and give tips on how to cultivate it.
Reverend Blair says that he feels inner trust when he is confident in what he believes in, and when he realizes that he is in control of releasing that trust.
“When I realize that trust is a quality that is within me that is waiting to be activated then it is calling to my willingness,” said Reverend Blair.
“Trust is a skill that we all have access to, we just have to develop it more and more,” said Jessica.
Jessica Hartley is a leader, revolutionizing how we heal our marriages and turn them around for good. Her Legendary Love Program provides the structure necessary to integrate powerful changes into your relationship, with or without the direct participation of both partners.
No more years of talk therapy, Jessica Hartley is a Deep Healing Expert, her sessions don’t stop at an hour- they are complete when the issue is addressed, resolved, and released.
As a powerful mentor, she tailors a 12-week program to address what is relevant and important to YOU, giving you powerful feedback, action steps, and practical guidance each week so you can make permanent leaps forward.
Jessica doesn’t want to be your crutch. Her approach is to give you everything you need to be successful and get the results you need- without separation, divorce, or wasting years in talk therapy. Her process will lift you up and set you free. “I’m here to create lasting change and deliver a legendary love life… I hope you are too.”