Thriving Relationships: Forgiveness

Thriving Relationships with Jessica Hartley

Host: Jessica Hartley

Topic: Forgiveness

Guest: Samantha Davis

Santa Clarita Relationship coach Jessica Hartley was live on-air this week on her weekly radio show to talk about forgiveness, and how our traditional ideas of it should be rethought.

Jessica welcomed guest Samantha Davis, a woman’s wellness expert, on her show and the two discussed how to, “revolutionize forgiveness.” The two women talk about how forgiveness, often times, is held out from the other partner until they feel, “understood.” That can get tricky, according to Jessica, because it can turn into a manipulative game where you hold something over your partner’s head and withdraw acceptance and attention from them.

“Sometimes people give their partner the cold shoulder in order to manipulate the partners behavior in order to assure that they will not repeat the offense,” said Jessica. “That’s a very codependent way to go about it, it’s saying I need you to redeem me in order to feel good.”

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It can be ammunition. Instead of just moving on right away and it’s pulling it out and saying, “well remember that thing you did?” said Jessica.

Women are powerful beings, and the power is a soft power that comes from the heart, said Jessica. It’s an empathetic, understanding power that can easily see the bigger picture in situations, so figuring out a new way to fully understand forgiveness is possible.


Jessica Hartley is a leader, revolutionizing how we heal our marriages and turn them around for good.  Her Legendary Love Program provides the structure necessary to integrate powerful changes into your relationship, with or without the direct participation of both partners.

No more years of talk therapy, Jessica Hartley is a Deep Healing Expert, her sessions don’t stop at an hour- they are complete when the issue is addressed, resolved, and released.

As a powerful mentor, she tailors a 12-week program to address what is relevant and important to YOU, giving you powerful feedback, action steps, and practical guidance each week so you can make permanent leaps forward.

Jessica doesn’t want to be your crutch.  Her approach is to give you everything you need to be successful and get the results you need- without separation, divorce, or wasting years in talk therapy.  Her process will lift you up and set you free.  “I’m here to create lasting change and deliver a legendary love life… I hope you are too.”[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]