The Flaw of The 5 Love Languages

Thriving Relationships with Jessica Hartley

Host: Jessica Hartley

Topic: The Five Love Languages

Santa Clarita Relationship coach Jessica Hartley was live on-air this week on her weekly radio show to talk the book, The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman.

“The idea behind the book is that the way we receive love is often times different from the way we give love,” said Jessica.

The book says that there are five different love languages, and everyone receives love from one or more of these more so than others, so our partner should know how to appropriately show us love, said Jessica.

The Five Love Languages are:

  1. Words of Affirmation – This language uses words to affirm other people.
  2. Acts of Service – For these people, actions speak louder than words.
  3. Receiving Gifts – For some people, what makes them feel most loved is to receive a gift.
  4. Quality Time – This language is all about giving the other person your undivided attention.
  5. Physical Time – To this person, nothing speaks more deeply than appropriate touch.

Identifying the five love languages enables us to give love to our partner the same way they receive it, said Jessica. It also helps us understand how to better communicate what we need in our relationships.

Previous Episode: The Woman-Panel: Their Thoughts About Love & Marriage – Thriving Relationships With Jessica Hartley – February 06, 2019

“The five love languages revolutionized the way we understand our partners,” said Jessica.

To learn more watch the full video here.


Jessica Hartley is a leader, revolutionizing how we heal our marriages and turn them around for good.  Her Legendary Love Program provides the structure necessary to integrate powerful changes into your relationship, with or without the direct participation of both partners.

No more years of talk therapy, Jessica Hartley is a Deep Healing Expert, her sessions don’t stop at an hour- they are complete when the issue is addressed, resolved, and released.

As a powerful mentor, she tailors a 12-week program to address what is relevant and important to YOU, giving you powerful feedback, action steps, and practical guidance each week so you can make permanent leaps forward.

Jessica doesn’t want to be your crutch.  Her approach is to give you everything you need to be successful and get the results you need- without separation, divorce, or wasting years in talk therapy.  Her process will lift you up and set you free.  “I’m here to create lasting change and deliver a legendary love life… I hope you are too.”[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]