Our clients have learned to side step divorce and unlock the deepest levels of connection, contribution & passion, even when their partner already has one foot out the door. They’ve put an end to blame, criticism and constant questioning. They’ve found the key that gets past deep seeded wounds and opens up authentic connection, without fail. Clients who once suffered from the pain of infidelity, were able to rebuild the powerful trust, connection and solidarity of their relationship. Our clients have learned how to fuel their authentic sexual relationship, getting in sync with their partner, igniting the fun, flirting and all out desire… using our tools to keep the passion burning for life.

Your relationship may not be lost.

Schedule Your
Marriage Mapping Session

Or Text or Call Jessica directly at (661) 347-8473

In just 60 minutes, we’ll take a look at the areas of your relationship that are the most challenging, frustrating & painful and create a custom-built plan to achieve what you want in your relationship.  Together we will map out the essential steps you need to thrive.  *You can create an ideal relationship with or without the direct participation of your partner.

This is your perfect way to get a taste of how I work and see if you’d like to work further with me.

Marriage Mapping Session: $45

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A complicated problem cannot be solved with a single solution

Like all things worth while, there isn’t one simple thing that will fix this… but rather a series of things, all working together seamlessly that will create the natural step by step, long lasting changes in your life.

Jessica Hartley's

6 Essential Elements

Conflict Resolution

No more wasting your time, energy and focus on long drawn out battles. Can you imagine how free and peaceful your relationship will feel without the frustration, struggle and anxiety of conflict, criticism or fighting in front of the children?

Learn the easiest Path to Connection and get back to operating in union as a team a soon as possible.

Long Term Passion & Desire

Bring back the playfulness, attraction and desire into your relationship. By developing your sexual confidence and self mastery, you will ignite a strong magnetic connection towards each other and eliminate stagnation.

You will become the couple that knows how to balance, fuel and maintain a lifelong, Red-hot, Passionate Marriage.

Building Foundations of Trust, Friendship & Deep Connection

Set a new standard. Evolve beyond infidelity and learn to develop the essentials of a deeply trusting, deeply connected relationship. Using our special series of ‘done for you’ Re-connection Date Nights, and our Daily Acts of Love, you will easily integrate the core foundations of Thriving Relationships.

Grounded Integrity
Radiate Confidence & Self Honor

Get Back to the integrity of who you really are. Learn the code to maintaining self honor, despite what’s going on outside of you. Know your worth and step confidently into the best version of all that you have to offer. Become the partner who attracts the upmost respect, support and devotion.

Easy Communication
That Gets My Needs Met

Discover the powerful Path of Influence and get your needs met without needing, nagging or pushing. Speak your voice in a way that activates acceptance, understanding and respect, every time. No more eggshells, walls, or defenses. Just REAL connection & meaningful conversation.

Healing My Wounds

No matter how much pain you have experienced, you can heal it & create lasting change. Learn to use the pain and challenges you face to heal the deepest wounds that have been holding you back form the kind relationship you desire.

Our one-on-one Deep Healing Sessions, Group Mentoring, and specific elements of our structure are designed to work together to eliminate unwanted patterns, heal them for good… and change your reality.

Here's a Sneak Peak Into the Program

What People Are Saying

When I started this journey I was stressed and full of anxiety; I was sick to my stomach daily and experienced chronic pain in my body... I was worried about everything, and really not a very happy person. I had been going to a traditional counselor in my town but was not getting anywhere. However, through Jessica Hartley's expert intuitive guidance, I have come to a truly wonderful place in my life! Jessica helped me realize my worth and my worthiness, my capacity for love and being loved. I have a confidence I don’t ever remember having. I stand up for myself now, where I never did before. Jessica pushed me when I needed pushing. Today, my life is a 180-degree shift- and no more chronic pain! Thanks to Jessica and my hard work, I am in control of my thoughts, I am really enjoying my life, and am experiencing success in all areas of my life! I have recommended her to several of my friends and will continue to do so without hesitation!

Dan Bartos, Potter

Jessica is a wonderfully profound and caring soundboard who takes her profession of elevating human relationships very seriously. She is a safe, loving, confident and wise counselor. She was able to meet me right where I was at, and give me useful tools to do my part in making my relationship better. What I have learned through her has been invaluable. Highly Recommended!

Cardon Ellis

I was at a loss- somewhere along the way my wife changed. We had grown apart and the resentment was mutual. I couldn’t fix things on my own- without losing my self-respect. Jessica Hartley stepped in and saved our Marriage when all else failed. She understood the inner workings of men & women and gave me the direction I needed to be the bigger person and to take the lead in my relationship. I applied Jessica’s insight and got the exact results from my wife that Jessica predicted. I was empowered by having a strong woman’s perspective ON MY SIDE. Things changed quickly & dramatically- that is how I know I finally got it right. In the end, my wife was so grateful she sent Jessica flowers & a “Thank-you” letter -which speaks for itself.

Scott Halsted

I began working with Jessica Hartley after my wife cheated on me and left. I knew I had to improve myself to become the man I wanted to be. Jessica was my greatest motivator. She helped me heal the pain and put myself first. She taught me how to speak with influence and take the lead in conflict resolution. I got over my ex and raised the bar. I am so much happier for it. My advice is this; find the time to invest in yourself & trust this program. Be radically honest and stay committed to the work and it WILL work for you. The ROI of this program yields so much more than anything else out there. You can only improve yourself, and as you do, you will find others improve around you.  I absolutely recommend Jessica’s Program, in fact, one of those recommendations has already started working with her- she is that good.

Jason Scott

We had a very bad separation.  Neither one of us trusted the other one. I wasn’t sure if this program would work, but we still loved each other and wanted to make one last big effort to turn it all around. Jessica Hartley taught me to be the bigger person and ignite a powerful chain reaction. The actions I took in my relationship created the positive effects I needed to feel. She became more trusting, respectful, less reactionary, and more loving. The changes I felt in her made me want to be my very best & even more loving back towards her… on and on. We went from anger, separation, and mistrust into feeling completely cared for, respected, and loved by each other. Jessica is a strong coach- I loved her willingness to call bullshit! She pushed me further than I thought I would ever go in regard to personal introspection and my role in the relationship. When you begin this program, I urge you to be as honest as possible and TRUST Jess.  She has your best interest in mind.

Joseph Bongiovi

I completed Jessica’s Legendary Love Program 3 years ago and it was the best thing I have ever done for myself. I had lost myself with motherhood and marriage, and I came to Jessica when my marriage was about to fall apart. I had no idea how much my childhood wounds were affecting my relationship, nor how to deal with his. My Sessions with her were profoundly healing. I learned to take the reins of my own experience. Jessica helped us realize what unconditional love actually feels like. Her Program gave us the well-rounded healthy model of relationship neither of us ever had. It taught us how to self nurture, take emotional responsibility, have peaceful communication, hold space for each other and ignite our intimacy, I could say so much more… It was absolutely life changing for my own personal growth and is solely responsible for saving our marriage from divorce. Her dedication and passion to helping relationships thrive is so genuine, her heart is so big and I love that about her. I really couldn’t see myself doing this work with anyone else! She is amazing!

Zinnia Usry

Local Artist
This program pulled me out of the biggest struggle of my life.  Tears of joy stream down my cheeks because working with Jessica and her program has transformed my life and my marriage, in ways I did not think possible.  The tools, Jessica’s incredible insight and her ability to dig deep and get to the heart of the matter, every single time are so powerful.. you will be amazed.  This program is so much more effective than traditional therapy.  My favorite part was the 'Done for You Date Nights!'  This program will teach you how relationships are intended to work, and once applied, these principles will change your life too.   After 26 years of marriage, my husband and I are having so much fun together…we have become two peas in a pod!
My relationship suffered the ultimate betrayal and we couldn't get past the pain and anger we both felt.  It took some courage, but Jessica Hartley's approach was powerful and efficient.  What made the most impact for me was her tool-centered approach.  It was so much more useful than talk therapy.  She listened to the specific issues we were facing, gave us specific feedback, specific tools and taught us how to use them ourselves.   Her step by step structure carried us through this process in a way that felt natural and effortless.  We've overcome so much pain.  We no longer have aggressive and hurtful arguments.  There is no more blame or manipulations.   Our relationship is stronger than ever, and I feel free to love her with my whole heart.
Jessica's Program is worth its weight in Gold!  Jessica and I worked one on one over the course of 6 months. I am so grateful to her for the powerful work that she has done in my life.  She made me feel so safe and accepted so I could have the courage to face my truths and become a better person for my partner and my family.  She really knows how to connect the human psyche to the human heart.  She is the very best at what she does!  If you need a miracle, trust your instincts... she is your gal!

Sarah Barette

Professional Dancer
The wisdom that Jessica Hartley's program offers is so much more progressive than the other advice out there. She helped me feel a connection with my husband that I had not felt in a very long time. The hardest step for me was in being willing to face and take responsibility for my own upsets, even though I could justify being upset with my husband. Jessica was able to pin point the specific place inside of me where I was holding myself back from my own happiness. She empowered me to be the best of who I am and has given me tools that have stayed with me for the past 3 years.

Samantha Davis

This program is nothing short of magical!  We were struggling for years and he had already given up on “us,” so I did this program on my own, without my husband being aware of it.  As I moved through it step by step, I watched as my husband transformed and began to genuinely re-connect and rebuild our relationship with me.  We healed things that haunted us for years.  I feel his connection and deep caring for me like never before.  We are in a whole new place, we have each others backs and now I am confident that we always will.

M. Peterson MD

My relationship was on the rocks. I thought we were past the point of no return and then Jessica Hartley happened. Her program broke through our walls and returned us back to our hearts and that warm chest melting feeling. All of our drama fell away and what was left was a boy and a girl, hand in hand, traveling the road of life and holding each other up to the best that we can be. Jessica saved my relationship and showed me what true intimacy really is.

Tasha Hernandez

Forestry Supervisor
Jessica created lasting change. Thanks to Jessica, I am the person that I have always wanted to be. She offers guidance without judgment, and without making you feel like what you were doing before was wrong. She is an amazing individual to bring into your life. Her warmth, her heart and her words always stick with me. Jessica has uplifted my relationship and my life!

Nicole Handley

Animal Trainer
Jessica Hartley is highly regarded as a powerful Marriage and Relationship Coach within the professional community. She has incredible perception into what's going on beneath the surface.  I highly recommend working with this intelligent woman. Her program has set a new standard in the field of Marriage Transformation. Her structure, tools and personal coaching have proven to provide all of the necessary components that can keep families together and cultivate deeply fulfilling relationships for her clients.

Balbir Brar M.D

Becoming a parent has tested every bit of my relationship. It has been so helpful to understand where my challenges are coming from and how to work with them for the good of all of us. Jessica's influence brought me so much peace and a deep knowing that I can handle what ever may come here on out. Her teaching has empowered me to give my child something better than I ever had. I can make a difference! I keep her voice with me every step of the way.

Melody Golden

Furniture Sales
Jessica Hartley has a warm loving presence. I was immediately drawn in and I felt connected to her. She is a talented teacher, a natural born leader and an inspiration. She has touched my heart and it is clear that she is meant to touch many lives.

Oren Harris

Motivational Speaker

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Apply For Consultation

Or Text or Call Jessica directly at (661) 347-8473

We’ll take a look at the areas of your relationship that are challenging, frustrating or painful. Together we will map out the essential elements you need and want to thrive in your relationship and create a custom built plan to achieve it. You can create an ideal relationship with or without the direct participation of your partner.

If your not 100% happy with the value you receive in this session, there is no need to pay. This is a perfect way to get a sample of how I work and see if we are a fit to work together.

Relationship Consultation: $270